August 8th
Breakfast today was an ice cream sandwich and bourbon. Things need to be consumed alright? Don't judge me. It was like 11 o'clock.
I spent the day tidying up the house. BORING. It was something to pass the time until Dan returned. He was supposed to be landing at 9:25pm.
Around 4pm I started worrying about what to wear. I was pretty sure Dan wasn't going to care, but I wanted to look pretty. I decided on a dress he purchased for me when we were down in Georgia.
It finally became an appropriate time to leave, which was about 8:45pm. Then the universe decided that things were going to be difficult.
Shortly after leaving home I came upon an accident on Granby that had my whole side of the road blocked off. Okay, detour time! This is not a big deal, except I get stuck behind a bus that decides to just stop in the middle of the road. Just because. For no reason. For like 5 minutes (or it felt like it anyway). The bus finally decides to turn and I zip off towards base.
The gate the GPS has taken me to is closed. Well, now what? I check the map and figure out how to get over to a gate and a part of base that I recognize. I need to get onto base first, and then I can wind my way back to where the GPS wants me to go.
I get to where the GPS tells me Chambers Field is. This turns out to be the area where the runway intersects with the road. GPS, this is not technically incorrect, but it is not helpful. I drive a bit further to find a place where I can pull off and try to figure out what to do next.
I ask the internet about where the pick up location is for Chambers Field. The internet is not helpful. I realize that I'm not really sure where I'm supposed to be picking up Dan. I thought it was where he came in last time, but last time he came in on a helicopter, so maybe not. I thought that was Chambers Field. Silly me is starting to panic and is very upset.
Why doesn't the universe want me to get to my husband? What if I'm late and he's the last guy waiting. I fight the urge to cry. I am frustrated. Rational me takes over and finds a map of base on my phone.
The helicopter pick up was somewhere near the vet. Let's go back that way. I head back out towards gate 3 and to the area I THINK is where I'm supposed to get Dan.
The place looks dead. There is one other car in the parking lot. This cannot be right. I go up to the doors and am surprised they aren't locked. I wander into the building. A service member spots me and asks if I need help. YES! I need lots of help! I explain that I'm supposed to be picking up my husband, but I'm not sure where and that this is where I got him last time. The service member inquires if Dan had said anything about an AMC flight. I have no idea.
Where did he come from?
"He came from Dubai, via Bahrain, via Souda Bay, via Naples, via the Azores to here"
You need to go to the AMC terminal. This happens all the time, let me give you directions and show you on a map where you need to go.
Thank you kind Service Member! Where I am and where I need to be, are not that far apart. I think I can just go a short way and be there. WRONG. I have to go back to where the GPS took me, and then ALL THE WAY AROUND the airfield. That is the only way to get to the AMC terminal. I set off.
I start to have my doubts about where I am going, because the road just keeps winding around, but I eventually make it to the AMC terminal. I have been driving around for over an hour now, it should have taken 20 minutes. I am very late. Dan is probably alone and upset that I am not there. Or he is too tired to care and passed out on a bench. Either way I feel terrible.
I park and go into the terminal. I am relieved to see so many other people waiting in the terminal for their loved ones. Maybe I'm not late after all?
I wait.
The evil sliding glass doors occasionally open, but no one comes out.
I wait.
I wait some more.
A pilot type person comes out followed in a slow trickle by some flight attendant type looking people.
I wait.
A few people come out and find their loved ones/rides. It reminds me of the intro/ending of Love Actually. It is very touching to see these people reunited. One guy literally dropped everything he was carrying to hug his gf/wife person. But none of them are Dan.
The gentleman next to me strikes up a conversation, mostly griping about the slowness of customs. Ah, that is what the hold up is! His wife and kids stayed overseas to finish school while he moved on to his next duty station. We chat for a bit. I keep watching people trickle through the sliding doors. Each time I think, "that is not my person."
The crowd that has been waiting has dwindled down to a handful. I have been waiting in the terminal for about an hour. It feels like an eternity.
I finally see Dan come through the sliding doors and I ran up to hug him. He has a terrible deployment mustache. He looks like a rookie state trooper, but for now I don't care.
Dan is home.